SOUTH BRONX SCHOOL: The Happy Good Time Emotion Response Place and School Part V: The Playroom Edition

Saturday, December 8, 2012

The Happy Good Time Emotion Response Place and School Part V: The Playroom Edition

Oh, there is fun to be had every day at The Happy Good Time Emotion Response Place and School, but only if you seek it.

The Happy Good Time Emotion Response Place and School has turned into nothing more than a playroom. A place where students, those students that disrupt their classes, throw chairs, run through the halls, punch and kick teachers are punished by being able to finger paint play with dolls, and have ice cream parties.

Nothing is taken seriously. It is all about making the students feel good. So what if Ezra in 5th grade tells a female teacher to "suck his dick," so what if Schlomo in 5th grade tells a teacher he will "put a cap in you after school," who cares if Menachem never shows up to class. These students know that in The Happy Good Time Emotion Response Place and School there will be zero consequences, for the good time that is awaiting them is worth getting to all the trouble they can and avoiding all the education they want.

Now, yes, we all want our students, to feel good. We all know that most of our students come from severely fractured homes. We as teachers wish we can save each and everyone of these students, to make them better people, to make them better students, to see them grow and succeed. But they cannot be coddled. They don't want to, nor do they respect being coddled.

 Most of the students who are involved in inappropriate actions at The Happy Good Time Emotion Response Place and School are boys. These boys, not all of them, but a goodly amount come from matriarchal homes, homes that have been matriarchal for generations. These boys have never had a positive male role model on their lives. They are crying out for that male role model, not only for what they are missing from having a second parent at home, but more importantly, a person who will be in their lives that offers guidance, boundaries, and knowledge of what they are going through as young men.

The students of The Happy Good Time Emotion Response Place and School can smell bullshit from a mile away, are smart enough to know when they are being patronized and condescended to, and don't have a modicum of respect for those that treat them in such a manner. These are kids of the Projects, of the Streets, they have seen too much, been fooled too much, to allow someone to pander to them.

The students of The Happy Good Time Emotion Response Place and School know how to manipulate the emotions of those that pander to them. Those panderers might think they are getting through, but rather they are being played like a cheap accordion bought in a long lost tag sale.

The students respect toughness along with boundaries and the ability to say what you mean and do what you say. There have been too many students over the years that have said, some as young as 2nd grade, that they respect someone because they "don't allow me to get away with anything."

So as long as The Happy Good Time Emotion Response Place and School attitude is still in place, we will lose these students whose behavior is so atrocious but just as bad we will lose the students whose behavior and positive attitude for education is above reproach for they are in an atmosphere where learning and safety are lost because the wrong approach to discipline has been implemented.









3 comments:

Polo Colon said...

Right on! The system seems to be incapable of really dealing with the harm and dangers they are promoting by giving unruly students a pass on incorrigible behavior. It is disastous for the student's development, the teacher's effectiveness and the society at large that will deal face to face with the antisocial results. The devil is in the microcosmic details!

Anonymous said...

With Ezra, Schlomo, and Menachem there, what the school can clearly use is a rabbi as the principal. Those rabbis, especially the yeshiva ones, are no joke! In our Hebrew School, the rabbi would take his belt off, and strap the insolent boys who disrupted class, and who had been sent to his office by the Hebrew teacher. And, he told us that he did the same thing to his own sons, with the following exception:

They had to go to his clothing closet, select the belt, and then bring it to the rabbi. They knew that if they didn't get the belt to the rabbi within thirty seconds, they would be receiving more.

Anonymous said...

On the mark--one of your best. I agree with every point you brought out. Too bad the principal at P.S. 154 doesn't possess the intelligence,nor the "gulliones" to implement real discipline instead of pussyfooting around the disciplinary issues. Progressive liberalism at its best!